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After being thrown out of nearly every school I attended after the seventh grade, I had a hunch that college might be different from the confines of high school. I went on to earn a B.A. in English and an M.A. in Creative Writing, and later began a Master of Fine Arts in Creative Writing—a program I eventually left after realizing that, as a single parent, I would need a more stable career path. I then earned a Master of Arts in Teaching.After a year of teaching in China with my seven-year-old daughter, I returned to the U.S. and taught writing at Portland community colleges. I later worked as a substitute teacher in high-need Los Angeles public schools.Following a nasty breakup that resulted in the loss of my Nigerian Dwarf goat herd, a failed business, and loss of stability—I focused on acrobatics, chess, and travel.I spent five years traveling solo, funded by substitute teaching and random writing gigs. I eventually got a job teaching English, and a few other things, to women at a university in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia.There, I met my Dutch partner. We traveled through Jordan and Oman and lived in Dubai for a year before relocating to the Netherlands. This transition included being stranded in the U.S. during the COVID-19 pandemic and spending several weeks in Belgrade, Serbia, while awaiting permission to re-enter Europe.I now live in southern France with my partner and three cats.
“Post-it notes of religious affirmations dotted the mirror. Jesus is King! one said. Angles surround us, said another. As a former spelling bee contestant, I couldn't resist pointing out the error—and the mathematical likelihood that angles were, in fact, far more likely to surround us than angels.”Misnested is a series of standalone, tragicomic reflections spanning 1982 to 1995. Linked by the dark absurdity of survival, these essays explore the intersection of apocalyptic religion and parental narcissism.
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